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Chopsticks or Knives and Forks?

I am talking about privacy. And this is no news. I only desire a simple answer from you kind readers: do lovers need a little inner space of their own where harmless secrets can rest without fear?

I'd like to categorise lovers into A Pair of Chopsticks and A Knife and Fork. Two Chopsticks make a couple but one makes nothing whilst A Knife is always a Knife so is a Fork and they too unite to make a couple.

I have been keeping this blog for more than two years and had never reveal it to my ex. Perhaps I had been too close and intimate to her therefore had wanted some free air out of her scrutiny. I don't have many friends with whom I could share my deepest emotions nor am I the type of person who share easily. I am prone to solitary musings.

Here, there are these entries my ex has never reached and maybe she never will. Still, I need it for my own and I don't think I had ever cheated on her. Why would I? We, in the first place, are independent individuals responsible for ourselves. I was responsible for my true feelings before taking care of ours. I need certain detachment in a relationship. Detachment widens my eyes and helps me see things more clearly. I am A Knife and Fork but my ex is A Pair of Chopsticks. Partly why we broke up.

A Pair of Chopsticks or A Knife and Fork? What is your choice?

3.5.06 18:14

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xiaoqiu (8.5.06 08:48)
I choose A Knife and Fork.

小秋 (10.5.06 11:15)
一个男子的选择：
I choose chopsticks
because if you look at 1st chopstick it is nearly equal the 2nd chopstick (gemini, personality, ...) and they work together to do their tasks leading by destiny (the hand which drives the chopsticks), and knife and fork are never TOGETHER in the same hand.and if they have done their task, they get cheaned and were put together in a case or box or paper, and fork never touch knife

(10.5.06 15:23)
是那個德國男人麽？不得不承認他的詮釋更加微妙，也更加令人有思考想象的空間。

aline / Website (11.5.06 15:19)
I'm not sure what you mean exactly but i choose knife and fork because chopsticks are exactly the same. When people are too alike, it gets boring (when it comes to being in a relationship). On the other hand, a knife and fork are different but they are used together and get the task done.